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“You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife…” Exodus 20:17

My assaulter shamed me and said that i was a hypocrite. He made fun that i created a prayer room in my closet like in the movie “War Room.” His remark in our last talk as “former friends in his twisted mind” was that i was too busy in my prayer closet to see what colded hearted (please pardon HIS LANGUGE) bitch i was being. He finished up with telling me good luck in life acting like a cunt. I still have the messages from that and where he threatened me one time with his suicide attempt for me ” leaving him” and his emotional blackmail as well as the one with his name calling all because i told him i didn’t believe he had a life outside of facebook cause he was messaging me so much on facebook. Now he Has threatened my husband with a law suit for harassment cause my husband confronted him about his assault on me.  For being such a great christian himself i am shocked that he didn’t think about the following link of scripture. It’s plane that a husband will not just back off. Even without scripture a person would retaliate at the things this twisted, sick person did. You can’t touch someone’s wife and assault her, try to take her and expect him to just let it go.

 Starting at verse 20 in link

He broke so many rules placed by God.

 Exodus 7 “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.

 He also misused the Lords name, in my opinion. He kept telling me that God didn’t want me and my husband together and constantly trying to use God to get me to leave my husband, while trying to get me to have an affair with him.

   Exodus 20 14You shall not commit adultery.”

 scripture tells you that if you are with a married women or a women who is divorced for anything other then being cheated on or the non believer leaves, you to are guilty of adultry as well as she is.

 Exodus 20:15 “You shall not steal.”

He tried to steal another man’s wife. 

 Exodus 20:16“You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.

 He also lies and tells people that the only reason he was involved with me was cause i lied and told him i was leaving my husband. This was another rule broke in the word of God. Scripture tells you not to lie.. He lied and continues to lie. He is giving false testimony about me in so many ways. 

So how is he such a great christian, but I’m so bad and a hypocrite because i ended his obsession with me and broke free from his manipulation? I guess there is no answer to that. I am far from being perfect, i may have started down a path with him due to his brainwashing, but when i finally started waking up, i walked away. I repented of any part that i was wrong in. All he has done is pass blame on me, lie saying how he didn’t sexually assault me. He still till this day tells my husband that we will still continue to have problems cause we lie to each other and don’t respect each other. He knows nothing about us and i know for a fact he lies to his girl friend. I have proof with messages. She asked him if he and i had any history and he told her no, that we were just friends. How can i be shamed for a supposed affair, but yet we have no history other then being friends? Christian? It’s not my place to judge, but i would say someone needs to work on his following of Christ and his ways of treating others.


Author: heidifowler

I'm a 34 year old with 3 wonderful kids, an amazing husband that ended up rescuing me from who i thought was trying to rescue me. i am the woman that makes mistakes but learns from them. i am not who i was a little over a year ago. last year i was easily manipulated, being made to feel guilty, and struck down by people i trusted. this year i have learned about myself and still to be strong. how to protect myself and never be a victim again.

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